Thursday, October 26, 2006

Hey there!





(above: two of my wE.musT.gRoW baby tees FINALLY! and us in the middle)
Hey! ...That's right, I'm still breathin. I think I've been spending more time on the phone than usual which has taken me away from the computer. I don't have much to say so I'm not gonna go out of my way and bore you guys. But what I will say is...."Could you check your horoscopes puh-lease?" Go on....it's fun...kay? It'll be worth it, it's always very insightful. So run along, c'mon, just click here .

Sunday, October 15, 2006

Withdrawal

Wow.
I guess it's been a minute since I've written, eh? Well it wasn't by design. I actually posted about a week ago and when it came time to publish? ...Post completely gone. Yeah. I was pissed so I had to walk away for a sec. I had good stuff for ya'll on that one too! Oh well, we'll try again.

So things have been good. I'm about to start sending out my marketing packet thingeez for we.must.grow. I'm siked, but I think I'm jumping in and out of my own way if that makes any sense. I'm sooo excited to send them out because I feel reeeaally good about everything. ...I did good. But then I feel like...this is it! Success is right around the corner! All that you have worked for, all that you have sacrificed, all the setbacks and struggles as an artist, all of the --defending your career choices to your family, all of your failed projects-succesful projects, all of the recognition and the criticism leads to this moment here: The Pay Off. ...oooooohhh. Am I ready? Am I ready? My subconcious is debating, back and forth..."Oh Yes. I'm ready....Weeeell....wait, wait, okay maybe not. ...No I'm ready. ....WAIT! Hold on, hold on, hold on..." But it's okay. I'm gonna get ready. It's the hand holding the material about to put it in the mailbox...then pulls back to keep it out of the box. But I'm gonna put it in. I have to!!!!!!!
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I had to say good-bye to cable...not by choice. But can I tell you I'm just recovering from cable withdrawal? I know it's pitiful. You don't have to tell me. I realized it was my "bestest" friend. It spooned with me while I slept on my couch. It kept me company while I cooked sometimes. It said good morning to me all the time! And lastly...you guessed it...it was always there when I was in need. My loss came not a moment too soon. I started working this part time job. My hours are crazy, I'll tell you about that in a minute, but it now forces me to rest. I realized how much sleep I wasn not getting because of cable. ...Ridiculous. So my job is with this program that runs before and afterschool programs. I work from 6am-9am and again at 2:30-6pm. That six a.m is brutal! And I feel bad getting the baby up at that time but it's actually not too bad right now. For instance I don't really miss a beat with SUnshine. She goes back to sleep at the sitters from 6-9 and when I pick her up we hang out for a sec, she takes a nap, wakes up and then it's time for me to go. Then she only has to go the sitters for four hours. At least one of which she'll sleep for if not more. But it's good. I'm gonna try to hang until December, at least with that early shift. Then I may just switch to afternoon. I'm not sure I'd have a child care option that early in the morning after that time. THis job is so much less stressful than working with the teens...let me tell ya.
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I guess that's my update....Oh wait! I swear. In like two weeks, the little one has acquired the mechanics to crawl... and has the beginnings of two teeth. TOday we went to target and I had to exercise so much discipline! It was sooo hard not to take the money that I set aside for some work clothes and spend it on her. Of course we saw the coolest toys, the coolest clothes, baby bedding god knows what else baby that suddenly, WE NEEDED! But my shopping concience and financial concience was in full swing. "Put down the crib piano...put down the cow puppet...put down the three pair of shoes! Those are not a priority right now!" And I listened...I am proud of myself for that. Babysteps.
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And before I depart, can I tell you why I need new clothes? Not because just wanna treat myself no...
But because my body did a lil switcharoo after having the baby. A weight redistribution, something. Anyway, as a result of this, the booty I valued so much, the junk in my trunk, my ba-dunk-a-dunk, has been stolen!! It is GONE. I never thought having a kid would steal a curve. I thought it may just add to them. Oh no. My pants don't stay up because there is no booty for them to hang on too now. Can you imagine? I was okay with my curves and now....it's like an old friend has left or something! (Sigh) I dunno. The crotch in my jeans hangs like 4-5inches below my crotch. ...What is that! So I must figure out how to dress this new body. I'm hoping the weight thing doesn't shift again after I stop breastfeeding 'cause this new stuff is gonna have to fit for a while. ...MMhm, very sad.

Well, that's my spiel...I'm gonna crash.
P.S. Apologies for the lack of visuals lately...I've been having problems posting pics.

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Deliverance

Once again I'm awake at some ungodly hour. Well, actually it may be a very godly hour. It's about 4:30am and I hear 4a.m.ish is the best time for prayer and spiritual work etc.

So what's been goin on? Oh, not much. I'd really like to not go on another job interview. I sent Ms. Jenkins to hang out with her Grandma and can I just tell you it's been a great break? All this time I thought balancing the baby was the challenge...come to find out it's balancing the dog! I"ve gotten so much done! I'm supposed to pick her up tomorrow and I must confess I need another week but...I'm sure she's happy she got some exercise and she probably misses the baby.

Saturday I finished my wEmusTgRoW tees to deliver on Thursday and they made me sooooo happy! I planned on having a pic for you but I'll try to get that up tomorrow. I'm trying to finalize a design for baby boys that I like, so I'm still working on that. The initial plan was to hit the streets again tomorrow to a few more baby boutiques but I have a feeling it's gonna get bumped until wednesday but that's okay. I just better use up the last of my puppy free day tomorrow. I swear, I need an assistant! Wouldn't that be lovely if I could afford one?

Sunshine has just about mastered sitting up and it is so precious! She get's so excited while she's trying to balance and I start going "Yaaaay!" Today I wondered what I must look like when I'm in baby babble mode. I thought about how before she arrived I would think to myself from time to time, "I don't even know how to baby talk. That's just not my thing. You know...baby communication...". But look at me now people! I'm a pro! Not only do I baby talk, I baby dance I do it all. Yeeeah!

I suppose that's my update for now. I did wanna tell you guys about my Friday. It was nice. It all started in the mist of a chaotic moment:

"That's it! Ms. Jenkins you are driving me nuts! Somebody has to go. N.J. I think it's you (ms. jenkins)!" So I packed up her dog food, leash and told her she was going to Grandmas. I'm quite sure she understood because she was extremely excited as if to say, "Good. At least I can run around over there in a yard, play with my ball and not rely on you to only take me outside for potty breaks and continuously tell me to get out of the way". We'd been in all day. I could tell the baby wanted to get out so did the dog. Just as I was ready to walk out the door to seek deliverance, a friend of mine that I don't really see regularly called. As soon as I answered she says, "Hey, are you in need of a visit?" I was kind of puzzled at first and just repeated what she said. "We were trying to get over to the river and made a wrong turn and ended up over here by you. So I wondered if you were in need of a visit." ...Why ...uh...yes, I suppose I was. I told her if she still wanted to go we could walk from here so I grabbed the stroller and met her outside. --Oh and N.J. was not pleased to have one foot out the door only to have to go into her crate. You should have seen the look of defeat. Anyway, we walked over and luckily no one was occupying my favorite spot so we just hung out there: we meaning me, the sunshine, my friend and her daughter. Her call could not have come at a more perfect time. I needed the calm and the peace DESPERATELY! Before I knew it we'd been there almost two hours. ...Chatting a little bit but primarily taking in our surroundings. She'd brought offerings to make at the river so she proceeded to do it before we left. I was going to let her do her thing in private until she said, "C'mon SunshineMama you too! We must not have come to get you for nothin'!" So I accompanied her over to another little part of the river while her daughter and Sunshine happily bonded. With no real formula or method we made our offerings, asked for healing and guidance where needed, spoke our intentions and gave thanks.....

It may sound silly to those of you that aren't really into that sort of thing but you have no idea how therapeutic it was. And she was right: they must not have come to get me for nothing because it was a major reminder for me to STOP AND BREATHE. I'd been worrying about any and everything except what really mattered. You guys know me... That moment at the river totally brought me back to my center and just reminded me to focus. And be thankful. And appreciative even when you think you have no reason to be. Once we were done, we hugged a big hug. And packed up to head back toward my house. This particular friend was always kind of guarded so she's not one that I would have approached to hug first but she's been trying to do a lot of "work". Although it was such a simple action, I felt like our friendship had reached a new level because that's one friend I don't really hug. Our offering time was maybe twenty or thirty minutes...but perhaps we felt more bonded because much of our requests forced us to verbalize our shortcomings and imperfections to one another...or at least in front of one another. I guess if you're going to be honest with the creator, it can't matter whose around. I thanked her and told her she had no idea how right on time her phone call was. By the time we got home it was getting dark so I got Sunshine ready for bed and postponed N.J's trip until the next day.

Honestly, I think that women everywhere need to get together and visit the river from time to time. It was an amazing feeling. ...Peaceful and empowering!

Well, I better take my booty to bed. I can still get at least three hours. I have tons to do tomorrow and I can't afford to waste a single second. By the way, I keep meaning to give you all this link. His horoscopes are always so insightful and accurate! Trust me! Sometimes you may have to read them more than once to really see how it fits but it always does. It's crazy. Let me know what you think. www.freewillastrology.com

Thanks for reading, I know this one was a bit lengthy.